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Spiritual Formation Starts at Home: The Role of Parents in Discipleship

November 15, 2024
By Ryan Hyde

At Calvary Christian School, we believe spiritual formation begins long before a child steps into the classroom. It starts in the home, where parents are called to be the primary spiritual guides for their children. The Bible clearly emphasizes the responsibility parents have to disciple their kids, nurturing them to grow in faith, wisdom, and love for the Lord.

Biblical Foundations for Parental Discipleship 

In Deuteronomy 5, Moses is given the ten commandments and in the following chapter, God commands us to keep His law and Word always before us, saying, "These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."

This passage reminds me that discipleship is not a one-time event but an ongoing process that is supposed to be a part of daily life. Parents should see the opportunity to use conversations at the dinner table, bedtime routine, time spent hanging around McKinley Fields, to share God’s truth and model a Christ-centered life. This doesn’t have to be a sermon! It can be as simple as recognizing the beautiful day that God has given us or being thankful for the health and energy we have to run around a soccer field.  

Similarly, Ephesians 6:4 speaks directly to fathers, urging them to take an active role: 
"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."

This verse is one that highlights the unique role of fathers in shaping the spiritual direction of their children. Research supports this biblical truth. Studies show that when fathers take the lead in spiritual matters, the impact on their children’s faith is profound. In families where the father is a committed Christian and actively leads in faith, approximately 75% (and maybe even a higher number depending on which study you look at) of the children continue to walk with the Lord into adulthood. This is compared to only about 15% when the father is disengaged spiritually. Wow! A 60% increase simply from the father taking an active role in their child’s spiritual development? What an opportunity!

Practical Steps for Parents

So how can parents, especially fathers, actively disciple their children at home? Here are a few practical ideas: This does not have to be intimidating!  

Family Devotions: Set aside time each day to read Scripture together, discuss its meaning, and pray as a family. This could be a morning ritual, during dinner, or before bedtime. Our staff have added monthly devotional plans your family can use in the Calvary app if you aren’t sure where to start. You’ll be able to find annual plans and monthly devotional plans that we recommend.

Model Prayer: Pray regularly with your children! Not just in times of need, but in moments of gratitude and joy. Let them hear you pray for them, their futures, and God’s guidance in their lives.

Intentional Conversations: Use everyday moments to point back to God’s truth. Whether it’s discussing a challenge at school or talking about current events, lead the conversation toward a biblical perspective.

Church Involvement: Regular church attendance as a family is crucial. Show your children the importance of being part of a community of believers, and serve together in your church. From time to time, we’ll hear frustrations about church, which may include serving with challenging people, disagreements over a church policy, or differences in preferred style of worship. The main point here is that the church has been established by God as His way for us to be connected and further our walk with Him. It’s simply our job to be obedient to scripture!

Personal Growth: The most powerful way to disciple your children is to live out your own faith authentically. Children will see this!

Partnering with Parents

At Calvary Christian School, we understand the vital role parents play in the spiritual formation of their children, and we want you to understand it too! Our goal is to come alongside you, provide biblical instruction, support for your home, a nurturing environment, and a Christian community to reinforce the biblical values taught at home. As parents, you have the primary role to disciple your children. We are passionate about seeing young minds turned towards Jesus as they grow not only in academic areas but more importantly in their walk with the Lord. People often talk about future society with fear, frequently worried about the direction the world is heading. We can say on the flipside that we see 500 students currently being rooted in God’s Word every day and will someday soon take that light to Logan county, our state, and our country to shine brightly for Jesus, impacting those around them as well. Now that’s an exciting future!  

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Herzog Foundation - Faith & Nation Student Forum

November 06, 2024
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Senior Ezekiel Wylie attended the inaugural Faith & Nation Student Forum this past week held at a camp outside of Kansas City, MO, and was hosted by the Herzog Foundation and Young America's Foundation. Speakers included Paula Scanlan, Andrew Pudzer, Trent Horn, Governor Scott Walker, Ryan Anderson, Daniel Di Martino, and Vincent Everett Ellison. Topics discussed were focused on emboldening future leaders by giving them tools to help them stand firm in their faith and defend their conservative values and included Responding to the Transgender Movement, The Perils of Socialism, The Moral Case for Free Market Capitalism, and The End of Tolerance, among others. The four-day event culminated with an Election Watch Party where all students stayed up late to watch election results while receiving encouragement from sitting politicians including Ted Cruz of Texas and Brian Kemp of Georgia, until President Trump's declaration speech. "This was a very fun event where I was able to meet many like-minded people, apply my faith to political issues of the day, and discuss how to work in this world through a Christian World View. I would like to thank Calvary and Herzog for the honor of allowing me to participate in the Forum," said Ezekiel after the trip.

The Herzog Foundation provides training and services aimed to improve and grow K-12 Christian Education space in order to catalyze effective and scalable programs across the nation (@herzog_foundation). Young America's Foundation exists to help students find support, promote conservative views, and take action on more than 2,000 campuses across the nation (@yaf_).

Why is Worldview so Important Anyways? A look at our Portrait of a Graduate: Biblical Worldview

October 18, 2024
By Ryan Hyde

It’s a sad story that we’ve heard too frequently. A young person who grew up in a Christian home attends a public university or community college and 4 short years later returns home with a completely different thought process and approach to the world around them. The biblical foundation that had been nurtured at home has been under constant attack while secular philosophies have taken its place. It’s for this reason that it’s so crucial for students to take their time in K-12 education to develop a deeply rooted Biblical approach to the world around us.  

So let’s start by taking a brief look at eight of the secular philosophies that surround us today.

Humanism: Humanism is a philosophy that places human beings at the center of meaning and morality. Humanists believe that human beings are capable of morality and self-fulfillment without relying on divine intervention or religious doctrines.

Relativism: Relativism teaches that truth and morality are subjective and can vary based on culture, personal experience, or individual belief. According to relativism, there is no absolute right or wrong; what is considered moral or true depends on individual or societal preferences. This philosophy is often seen in statements like "what’s true for you may not be true for me." (Does this sound like the time of the Judges? They did what was right in their own eyes!)

Materialism: Materialism is the belief that the physical world is the only reality, and anything that exists must be measurable by scientific means. It denies the existence of anything spiritual or supernatural. This worldview often reduces human experiences like consciousness, emotions, and morality to mere chemical or physical processes in the brain.

Naturalism: Closely related to materialism, naturalism holds that everything can be explained by natural causes and laws, without the need for supernatural explanations. In education and science, naturalism often promotes a strictly evolutionary, non-theistic view of the world, rejecting any spiritual or divine aspects of reality.

Postmodernism: Postmodernism argues that there is no single, overarching truth or narrative that can explain reality. Instead, it promotes skepticism of any universal truths, favoring multiple perspectives and interpretations. Postmodernists often challenge traditional beliefs, including religious and moral absolutes, and advocate for deconstructing established narratives.

Secularism: Secularism is the principle of separating religion from civic affairs and government. While this can refer to maintaining religious neutrality in public institutions, it also has evolved into a worldview that prioritizes human reason and empirical science over religious or spiritual considerations, particularly in public policy, education, and culture.

Existentialism: Existentialism focuses on individual freedom, choice, and personal responsibility. It teaches that life has no inherent meaning, and it’s up to each person to create their own meaning through their choices and actions. While existentialism can be either religious or secular, the secular version tends to emphasize human autonomy without divine purpose or guidance.

Hedonism: Hedonism is the belief that pleasure or personal happiness is the highest good and ultimate aim in life.  

Whether you’ve recognized it or not, the above philosophies are ingrained into different aspects of the secular thought process in our society, especially education. This highlights the importance of building a biblical worldview!

So what then defines a biblical worldview? A biblical worldview is a way of interpreting and understanding the world through the lens of Scripture. It is based on the belief that the Bible is the infallible, inspired Word of God and serves as the ultimate authority for truth, morality, and the nature of reality. This worldview sees all aspects of life through the principles and teachings found in the Bible.

Key components of a biblical worldview include:

God as Creator and Sovereign: A biblical worldview starts with the belief that God is the Creator of the universe (Genesis 1:1) and has ultimate authority over all creation (Psalm 24:1). He sustains and governs everything, and nothing happens outside of His will and purpose.

Humanity's Purpose: Humans are created in the image of God (Genesis 1:27) with inherent dignity and value. Our primary purpose is to glorify God and enjoy a relationship with Him (Isaiah 43:7). Life’s meaning is found in serving and loving God, not in personal fulfillment or earthly achievements.

The Fall and Sin: A biblical worldview recognizes that the world is fallen due to human sin (Romans 3:23). This fall has affected every aspect of creation, including human nature, relationships, and the environment. As a result, humanity is in need of redemption.

Jesus Christ as Savior: Central to a biblical worldview is the belief that salvation comes only through faith in Jesus Christ (John 14:6). Christ’s death and resurrection provide redemption from sin and offer the hope of eternal life (Romans 6:23). The gospel transforms lives, giving Christians new identities as children of God (2 Corinthians 5:17).

The Authority of Scripture: The Bible is the inspired and authoritative Word of God (2 Timothy 3:16-17). It provides guidance on how to live, think, and understand reality.  

Moral Absolutes: A biblical worldview upholds that moral truths are objective and rooted in God’s nature and commands. Right and wrong are not subjective or relative but are defined by God’s standards (Exodus 20:1-17, Matthew 22:37-40).

Humanity's Role in the World: Christians are called to live as ambassadors of Christ in the world (2 Corinthians 5:20). This means engaging in culture, work, and relationships in a way that reflects God’s kingdom values and purpose.

Eternal Perspective: A biblical worldview includes an understanding that life on earth is temporary, and believers are to live with an eternal perspective (Colossians 3:1-2). The reality of heaven and Christ’s return shapes how we view suffering, success, and our ultimate purpose.

What a difference between the secular set of philosophies and a Biblical worldview! This is why at Calvary Christian School, one of the most vital characteristics in our Portrait of a Graduate is the commitment to developing a biblical worldview in our students. This goes beyond simply teaching them to follow rules or adhere to guidelines. Our goal is to nurture students who see the world through the lens of scripture with hearts that are truly transformed, reflecting a deep relationship with Christ, a change that only comes through the work of the Holy Spirit.

All forms of education are taught from a worldview, whether acknowledged or not. In public education, you’ll follow the top list to see the foundation for which the curriculum is built on, it will be grounded in humanism and relativism. In contrast, at Calvary Christian School, the foundation for everything we do is the only true cornerstone, the direct Word of God. We see science, history, and literature not as neutral subjects but as fields that reflect the beauty, order, and sovereignty of the Creator. Colossians 2:8 warns us, “See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the elemental spiritual forces of this world rather than on Christ.” We stand firm in teaching students to view the world around them through the truth of Scripture, enabling them to discern truth from falsehood.

Our commitment to a biblical worldview is foundational in developing graduates who are equipped not only to understand the world but to participate in it, with wisdom and conviction. These students have the ability to observe and engage with society through a filter that aligns with God’s Word. They are equipped to evaluate cultural, moral, and spiritual matters in light of biblical principles, which will guide their decisions and actions as they grow into adulthood.

In a world where secular values increasingly influence every aspect of life, our desire is to disciple students who see the world through a biblical lens, shaped by the truth of Scripture and led by the Holy Spirit. This vision for our graduates is not simply about academic success but about cultivating hearts that reflect Christ and minds that are fully anchored in His truth. 

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Developing Grit: Pursuing Calvary’s Portrait of a Graduate

October 02, 2024
By Ryan Hyde

Growth is a universal desire. We all want to see it in our lives and in our children’s lives. Yet, as we all know, growth never comes without struggle. It’s in the moments of challenge, frustration, and difficulty that growth occurs. Just as a seed pushes its way through the soil to reach sunlight, so too must we endure hardship to experience genuine growth.

The Science of Struggle: The Myelin Sheath

In the world of neuroscience, there’s a process that beautifully illustrates the necessity of struggle in growth. God designed our brains with billions of neurons that communicate with each other. These signals travel along pathways insulated by a substance we call the myelin sheath. The more we practice a skill, the thicker the myelin sheath becomes around the neural pathways, making the skill easier to perform. However, this process doesn’t happen overnight. It requires constant practice, repeated effort, and yes, struggle! Just as an athlete must endure hours of focused training to improve, our students must embrace grit to push through academic challenges to build the "myelin" that will enable them to master new skills. The apostle Paul gives us our motivation for our hard work in Colossians 3:23-24. He says to “work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ.” Our desire for growth and skill development is ultimately a reflection of wanting to build the traits and talents that God has blessed us with; and we in turn want to use those abilities to glorify Him.  

The Butterfly’s Struggle

Another example of grit producing transformational change in God’s creation is the butterfly. The caterpillar must fight its way out of the cocoon, struggling with all its might. We might be tempted to help, to break the cocoon and free the butterfly, but doing so would rob the butterfly of the strength it needs to fly. The struggle is necessary for its wings to develop the power required for flight. This beautifully represents the growth we want to see in our children. As much as we wish to remove their struggles, we must recognize that these very challenges are what prepare them for the future. The struggle is not a sign of failure but a critical part of their development.

Grit: Calvary’s Portrait of a Graduate

At Calvary Christian, one of the core characteristics in our "Portrait of a Graduate" is grit. Grit is the resolve to push through difficulties, to keep going when the going gets tough. This trait is not just about academic resilience; it’s about developing the character to persevere in faith, even when life’s challenges seem overwhelming. James 1:2-4 says, "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

 

Encouraging Families Through the Struggles

It’s important to remember that growth is a process, often marked by moments of difficulty. Here are three ways you can support your students as they encounter seasons of struggle:

Be Patient and Encouraging: Growth takes time! When your child is facing academic or personal challenges, remind them that it’s okay to struggle. Encourage them by celebrating small victories along the way. Galatians 6:9 reminds us, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

Model Perseverance: Our children learn more from our actions! When you encounter your own challenges, model perseverance and faith. Show them how you rely on God during tough times. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

Pray Together: There is power in prayer! When struggles arise, take time to pray with your children. Ask God for strength, wisdom, and perseverance. Philippians 4:6-7 encourages us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” 

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Cultivating Growth: A Greenhouse Instead of a Shelter

September 13, 2024
By Ryan Hyde

As partners in discipleship, our goal to transform student lives through Jesus Christ in a world that’s running the other direction is full of challenges! It can be tempting to want to shield them completely from external influences. Calvary is not designed to simply be a shelter that blocks out the world, but a greenhouse that nurtures growth over time while allowing students to form deep roots in God’s Word as they grow in their understanding of a Biblical worldview.

The Shelter

If we think about a shelter, while protective, by definition is isolated from the outside world. It creates a barrier between them and any potentially harmful influences, but this can also prevent them from developing the resilience, discernment, and wisdom needed to navigate life beyond our doors. As they eventually step out into adulthood, the sudden exposure to the world can be challenging, like a fragile plant abruptly placed in harsh conditions.

The Bible reminds us that while we are "not of the world," we are sent "into the world" (John 17:14-18). Jesus prayed not for His disciples to be removed from the world, but for their protection and sanctification as they remained in it. It’s not possible nor desirable to be completely sheltered to the world, but a safe place to grow deep roots is essential while critical worldviews are being formed.

The Greenhouse

A greenhouse, on the other hand, creates an environment where plants can flourish. It provides sunlight, water, and warmth; elements essential for growth, while still protecting young plants from harsh winds and cold. The greenhouse doesn’t shut out the world; it provides the proper environment for what’s growing inside to truly flourish in time.  

In the same way, Calvary strives to provide an environment where students can be exposed to challenges while still under the nurturing care of godly teachers and supportive parents. Proverbs 22:6 instructs us to "train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." The greenhouse approach aligns with this principle, allowing roots to grow like an anchor while students are being grounded in biblical truth. Rather than merely shielding our students, we aim to equip them with the tools they need to engage with secular culture in a biblical manner. Ephesians 6:10-18 speaks of putting on the full armor of God so we can stand firm. Just as a plant in a greenhouse grows stronger through carefully measured exposure to the elements, our students grow stronger in faith, character, and wisdom as their roots deepen in God’s Word. We want to foster young believers who are firmly rooted in the Word of God and ready to stand strong, living as "salt and light" (Matthew 5:13-16). Our role is to nurture this growth through Christian education in a way that protects and prepares, discipling our students to become witnesses for Christ in whatever environment they are placed in.

In our greenhouse, students can safely practice using the biblical tools they’ve been given. They will learn how to discern truth from falsehood, respond to challenges with grace, and stand firm in their faith while being compassionate and wise in their interactions with the world. 

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